Who are you writing for?

There are so many different reasons to write.  Some are about our intended audience, our readership and the impact we hope to make: sharing ideas, conveying information, changing minds, telling stories.  But some are most definitely about the benefits for us, the writers.

Writing to clarify our ideas, to throw emotions down onto a page, to calm a storm of troubled thoughts.  Writing to help us know what we know.  As Joan Didion said:

"I write entirely to find out what I'm thinking, what I'm looking at, what I see and what it means.  What I want and what I fear."

I was reminded of this with Rosa's follow up post to our conversation on the "noise" of blogging, and how to avoid it.  In sharing her practice of combining a private blog and journalling Rosa also reminded me of an important - and often hidden - dimension of what we do.  Write in order to learn from ourselves.

'The "Master" you learn from is you.' she says. 'The "1 Person" you blog for is you.'

It's an intriguing, but also a challenging thought.  I try and write this Confident Writing blog in a way that will be helpful and useful for other people.  It's written very much with you, the reader in mind.  And yet I often enjoy 'discovering' what I didn't realise I knew about the process and practice of writing.  My Coaching Wizardry site is by its nature more dreamy and reflective - and I am well aware that the person who probably gets the most from me chewing over these philosophical chestnuts is myself...

Does this make the exercise more, or less, worthwhile?  Does it strike you as self-indulgent to write in order to learn?  Or necessary - essential even - as part of our journey towards understanding: of our selves, our words, and our worlds?